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Why I’m Skipping The Selfie.

Relational Real Estate/ Why I’m Skipping The Selfie. Navigating the Boundary Between Professional Guidance and Personal Milestones. May 13, 2026 • 3 min read The “Sold Sign Selfie” is another marketing tool for the agent, not a benefit for the client. I like to think that by refusing to manufacture a moment, I preserve the professional boundary and ensure the Spotlight Shift remains exactly where it belongs: on your successful transition. Image generated by AI Gemini You’ve just crossed the finish line. After weeks of navigating inspections, legal jargon, and the logistical grind of a move, the keys are finally in your hand. Then comes the inevitable industry request: ”Can we get a photo of you holding this giant ‘Sold’ sign?” "Inserting myself into your first moment at your new front ...

The "Top Producer" Myth: Why I Traded Volume for Value.

Agent Industry Myths/ The "Top Producer" Myth: Why I Traded Volume for Value. Why "Most Sales" Does Not Equal "Best Service" for Your Largest Asset May 13, 2026 • 4 min read My apologies to the Realtors and Brokers in this city who will stake their entire value proposition on a “Top Producer” badge. In the real estate world, the “Top Producer” badge is everywhere. If you’re sitting at your kitchen table trying to decide who to trust with your largest asset, it’s easy to assume that “the most sales” equals “the best service”. Not so fast! After years in this industry and having earned brokerage awards myself, I’ve realized that the label measures how much revenue an agent generates (Put another way: How much of your money they bring in) f...

A Little ADHD

PERSPECTIVE A Little ADHD "Saying “we’re all a little ADHD” is like saying “we’re all a little bit narcoleptic” because you occasionally need a nap." May 01, 2026 • 6 min read A colleague I admire recently said to me, “Well, all real estate agents are a little ADHD.” She meant it kindly. I suppose she was trying to build a bridge over the chaotic nature of our industry. But in those few offhanded words, the actual, messy reality of navigating this business with an AuDHD brain was dismissed as standard industry chaos. Worse, the specific, hard-earned advantages I bring to my clients were flattened into a clichĂ©. "Well, all real estate agents are a little ADHD" People often confuse ADHD with being highly caffeinated, disorganized, and aggressively extroverted. In real estate, that’s just a Tuesday. I am undeniably wired differently than the industry standard. Having an AuDHD brain in a trade built on small talk, manufactured urgency, ...

Don’t Be A Dick About It.

Seller Psychology/ Don’t Be A Dick About It. Navigating the Feedback Trap and the Logic of Inevitable Decay. May 13, 2026 • 4 min read Here’s the truth: Buyers perform a “cold-blooded audit” of future debt, not a character judgment of your home. By ignoring the “Ego Tax” and addressing the math of Functional vs. Cosmetic deficiencies, you protect your equity from the cost of unnecessary delays. Image has been AI generated by Gemini The Real Estate industry can often treat properties like a ticker symbol on a screen, but for you, it’s a collection of Saturday mornings and hard-earned equity. It’s personal. How could it not be? However, there is a specific moment in a transaction where “personal” becomes a liability. đź’ˇ Key Takeaway When the ...